What can River Fern Counselling help couples with?

· Emotional disconnection.  

· Trouble communicating well.  

· Heated arguments and negative feelings towards each other.  

· Loss of intimacy. 

· Decreased friendship.

· Depression or Anxiety in one or both partners. 

· Addiction. 

· Infidelity. 

· Damaged trust. 

· Hormonal changes.

· Unresolved old wounds in this relationship. 

· Open relationships.

· Trauma from past relationships impacting your current relationship. 

· Trauma and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder in one or both partners.

· Understand themselves and each other better.

· Learn which patterns and behaviours are destructive.

· Practice evidence-based behaviours that are shown to improve   relationship quality.

· Improve communication. 

· Learn to reach for each other emotionally, asking for safety, testing trust.

· Learn to receive each other emotionally, creating safety, providing trust.

· Build stronger friendship.

· Increase intimacy. 

· Process betrayals and affairs. 

· Learn about addiction.

· Ease or eliminate depression. 

· Reduce and manage anxiety symptoms. 

· Compassionately process trauma. 

· Experience increased resilience in the face of challenges.

· Grow individually. 

· Use new your found energy to live healthier. 

· Enjoy a happier experience of life.

· Anxiety. 

· Depression.

· Stress & overwhelm. 

· Addiction. 

· Relationship difficulties (romantic partners, friends, family members and co-workers).

· Negative thoughts and feelings 

· Trauma and PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder).

· Low self-worth, low self-confidence, and imposter syndrome.

· Thoughts or intensions to self-harm and suicide. 

· Problematic expressions of anger or rage.

Heart to Heart Workshop - One session of 3.5 hours

Heart to Heart is a couples workshop for those couples who experience mild relationship difficulties often relating to communication. 

Perhaps you need a little reset to keep your relationship healthy, would like some perspective on issues, or to learn positive ways to connect with each other again. 

This can also serve as a cost saving option in comparison to the ongoing counselling process.

This private, one-off workshop will cover important aspects of relationships as well as communication counselling. You will be given a booklet filled with information to take away with you. 

We will have a free 15-min call to assess you for this option.

Couples:

Couples Counselling - Multiple sessions

Counselling begins with a beginning get-to-know-you phase of a joint session, online questionnaires (to be done at home), and an individual session each. 

Many counsellors offer appointments of 50mins - whereas I offer longer appointments of 1.5hours all the way up to 3.5 hours in duration and can say from experience how necessary and beneficial having this time in session is. 

How long the entirety of the process takes varies widely from couple to couple. We cover a lot in couples therapy; there is often individual personal growth that needs to happen in addition to relational work. Be prepared that this process takes time. 

Individuals:

· Short-term (4-6 sessions): Depending on what issues you would like to discuss or decisions you are facing, that can give you what you need at that time in your life.

· Longer-term (open ended, 6 sessions +): Some people are looking to answer deeper held questions in which a commitment to the therapy process is recommended. Greater depth and understanding of yourself leads to deeper and more permanent changes within you, and a healthier connection to yourself, others and the world.